Robin,
We change our keel lifting eyes and rope every 2 years as suggested in the boat manual. We are due to do it next season and use length of pipe that just goes over the eye with a hole through it to take a bolt. At the other end of the pipe is a tommy bar. It has been relatively easy to undo the eye and lift it out. Note that there is probably a washer between the eye and keel top (easily dropped down the keel slot!To prevent things going down the slot and jamming the keel, we stuff out the slot using rags.) The new eye goes back in the reverse way (may be a bit awkward starting the thread and keeping the washer in place) We put a bit of silicon on the tip of the eye thread as this was how we found it the first time we changed the eyes. You may find that new eyes won't tighten in the same alignment as original but can be shimmed out using a different thickness washer.. but a misalignment may not the critical, you will just have to make sure that the blocks lay ok and there is no adverse twisting.
As for using Stainless eyes, I once spoke to Bill Parker about this and he said that you would need a larger diameter eye as s/s is not as strong as steel. It would also be necessary to drill and re-tap the holes in the keel - apparently it can be done but.... We get our replacement eyes from a firm in Ipswich (local to us) that specialises in lifting and safety gear. These are not plated but we have had no problems as we coat the eye, after reassembly, with waterproof grease. After 2 years there is a little rust but nothing significant.
As for the block arrangement, we have a stopper knot at the upper block mounting but don't know if this is the same as you describe. Tarakihi has a 2-speed winch for raising the keel but we also use an "easy winch" that is effectively a winch handle that has a gear box and gives a halving of effort - still a bit of an effort for us oldies and takes a bit longer to wind up the keel. Sadly, the easy winch is no longer made as the owner of the engineering firm who sold it, sold the business but not the winch and then went to California (I think). I have tried to find if he continued making it in the US but to no avail! Don't quite know what we will do if it stops working! If you are using a single speed winch, I can see you might have some trouble...
Hope this helps.
Chris Cobb 23548/Tarakihi